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Personality traits is not something to be brushed away. It has much to do with the way we perceive life and accept our flaws. Being highly sensitive can sometimes mean feeling confused, guilty for feeling too intently, too intimately, superpower, shy, etc According Elaine Aron in his book he gave a ground breaking confirmation that  Highly Sensitive People  has “increased sensitivity to stimulus” and as being more aware of subtleties and processing information in a deeper and reflective manner. They analyse deeply and never act on impulse! Slow at making decisions:  they almost never make up their mind to do anything, they filter every plans with extra survey and make sure every aspect and details of their decision is accurate, which often take a longer time before they finally make up their mind. Notice every details:  they are particular about details, and pick up things that others may not notice, they scan their environment and people keenly. They ...

"Dear ipostcity, My name is Blessing Okeke and I have a serious issue that is threatening to tear my marriage apart and I need advice fast before I do something silly. I have been married for four years now, though I am still praying for a fruit of the womb. I thought I had a happy marriage till I realised that I have been living in a fool's paradise. The issue now is that my best friend is currently pregnant for my husband. I have been friends with Anita from childhood and we were so close that people thought we were actually sisters. We went to the same secondary school and were only separated during our university days but we kept in touch regularly. After graduation, I moved to Lagos from our Enugu base and few years later, I got married. All her life, Anita found it difficult to keep a steady relationship, something that gave her family and close friends cause for concern. Within eight years, she had married two times and broke up with the husbands; it was that bad. Last ...

Dear ipostcity, Am  Blessing . I have been married for 15 years but I have not been blessed with the fruit of the womb and now, my husband's parents want him to get another wife so that he can give them grand children. I have prayed, fasted, visited almost every fertility hospital in Nigeria, visited spiritualists, even native doctors, all in a bid to get my own child but all my efforts have been in vain. All the tests we have undertaken shows there is nothing wrong with my husband and I but as much as we have tried, we always meet with failure. Now, my husband's parents, especially his mother, have turned against me and have been urging my husband to get another wife who is not barren like me. She even told me to my face that I have bewitched her son and that I must have killed all my children through abortion but God knows all through my single life, I never aborted a baby. My husband too seems to be succumbing to the wishes of his parents and have hinted that he would ...

One   Ayodele Adedeji   of Jackross, Iyana Iyesi, Ota, Ogun State, has been nabbed by the state Police Command for allegedlyparading himself as a soldier in the Nigerian Army. Adedeji who is said to be using his assumed military authority to extort money from unsuspecting members of the public, was arrested by operatives attached to Onipanun Division of the state command after he had been monitored for sometime by members of the public who called the attention of an Army sergeant residing in the area, to his activities. The sergeant was reported to have accosted the suspect to ascertain if Adedeji was a genuine military man and after interrogating Adedeji, the sergeant was not satisfied with his explanation, and handed him over to the police. During interrogation by the police, the culprit confessed to being a fake soldier who had been impersonating for long. He told police detectives that his elder brother who was in the Army he died some years back and he deci...

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It is now three years since the four boys from the University of Port Harcourt were lynched in Aluu, a community in Rivers state known for violence. The torture was highly heartrending and barbaric. From being beaten up with batten to being burned alive with petrol and tyre, the boys were given slow and painful death sentence. Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Whatsapp If they had envisaged the death trap, Lloyd, Chidiaka and Tekena wouldn’t have joined Ugo to help him retrieve his cash from a debtor. The four handsome promising dudes were in cold-blood murdered in broad-day-light. Why the four shouldn’t have been killed This is a country where people die by jungle justice and the killers do not get questioned in the long run. Then one would imagine how these killers sleep with their eyes closed comfortably inside their houses with the thought of who to kill next. One would also imagine the kind of children they would unleash into the world; their offspring may not be differe...

About 139 captives of the Boko Haram sect have regained freedom in the north-east while eight members of the group surrendered to the military on Saturday Sani Usman, spokesman of the Nigerian army, confirmed this in a statement, saying the fight against insurgency is “gaining momentum”. The statement reads: “As the military is pushing for the final defeat of Boko Haram terrorists, the fight against the terrorists in the north east is gaining successful momentum with most of the camps falling to the Federal might.  The advancing troops have captured the villages of Jerre and Dipchari and have  destroyed the terrorists camps located in those areas.  The troops in the Bama axis have rescued yet another 62 people fleeing from Bitti and Pulka. The troops are also combing all known enclaves of the terrorists within Bama, Banki and Pulka general area. In addition, due to the offensive action of the military, another fleeing 22 women 15 men and 40 children arrived Bama today. Th...

Linda Ikeji, as you read this, is enjoying a private birthday dinner with her family, friends and loved ones somewhere in Lagos Drop your comment to wish her a happy birthday 

Iloyi Adebayo popularly known as Indomix tells Saturday Beats about his career as a music producer Why did you quit music and delved into sound engineering? I quit music because I hate facing the crowd. As a musician, you must face the crowd whether you like it or not. I was too shy to face the crowd. Was that the only reason or the music industry was not favorable to you? Sincerely, it was favourable but I was not very serious with the music career. While I was doing music, I discovered I could also do music production. I decided to develop myself in music production since I was too shy to become a musician. After I perfected my skills in the craft, I noticed that everybody in the industry wanted to have something to do with me as a sound engineer. I began to understand that people appreciated me more being a sound engineer than a musician. Which of your works would you say made you popular? People started to reckon with my trademark when I did the song titled Ole for Sound Sultan, ev...