Ladies: How to know if your guy is Ready for Relationship

In relationship, you need to use your head sometimes, not about falling in love but being happy matters a lot in relationship.
You always want to marry someone who is determined to find success in life. You want to marry a man who has a plan for his life – someone who has structure and order in the way he goes about his day.

1. He doesn't know how to care about you beyond seeing you as an object for sex. If he doesn't care about your emotional, mental, and spiritual wellbeing then he might only care about how you pleasure him.

2. He still is spending a great deal of time on his ex-girlfriend. If he is with her and communicating with her, then he isn't done with her. If he keeps talking to you about her, then he probably isn't so attached to you.

3. Communication is very important especially in long-term relationships. Communication is always a give and take. He can’t be the one who is doing all the talking in the relationship. He also has to be willing to listen to you and actually pay attention to everything that you’re saying. When communication is low in a relationship, that's big sign.

4. He has no clue what he wants to do and is mostly wasting his time. He probably doesn't know what he wants in a woman either.

5. You have way too many unnecessary and pointless arguments.
The prominence of unnecessary arguments in your relationship means that one or both of you just lack the maturity to let the small things go. Some arguments just aren’t worth having especially in a loving relationship.

6. He is uninterested in anything happening in your life.

7. He still keeps a lot of secrets from you.
He is hiding a lot of things from you because he doesn’t trust you with the truth. He doesn’t think that you’re worthy of the truth. He doesn’t respect you enough to be completely honest with you. These are blatant signs that he isn’t serious about you.

8.He still flirts with other women.
He shouldn’t even be flirting with women early on in the relationship. If he’s still doing it deep into the relationship, you should consider changing course.
9. Displaying" I don't care attitude " He doesn't know you exist, really.